Changes

i have been with my Mistress for almost 5 years now.  One thing i have learned is that life changes.  i am not so good with change, especially when a lot of changes happen at once.

When i met my Mistress, there were two other Dominants in Her house - Her husband and Her partner. Going from being by myself to serving a Mistress and Her partners was a BIG change.  It was not easy and i know i drove them crazy the first six months while i was learning how to serve them and manage their house. 

A year later there were more changes as another slave (belonging to my Mistress's husband) was added and i stepped into the role of alpha slave. This was a tremendous year of learning.

Many are curious about what went wrong.  It is not for me to share all of those conversations and interactions.  i will share what i learned when our immediate family (not our Leather family) split and my Mistress, Her partner (my Sir), and i moved out.  i want to live a life that is genuine and i know this is a shared goal with my Mistress and my Sir.  Who we are in public is who we are in private.  We do not do things just "for show".  We are not social climbers.  We do not toss names around or make connections to make ourselves look important.  We have an authentic love for our community and we want to make it a better place for everyone.  We want to help, not use for our own purposes.

My Mistress, my Sir, and i lived together for the next 2 years.  My Sir added his own slave to our unit.  i am very grateful to my sister slave for the time we were together.  She showed me the beauty of working in harmony with someone to make our family better.

More changes came our way.  My Sir and His slave decided to step back a bit and follow their own path. This change, as much as it pained my heart, was very amicable and mutually supportive.  They are two people who will always remain in my heart.

Around this same time, enter our boy.  She came into our life and brought more happiness, fun, and love.  It was pretty incredible to see my Mistress establish another relationship with someone.  There has never been a moment of doubt regarding my place in Her life.  i know i'm Hers.  

So now our little immediate family is my Mistress, me, and the boy. Right now our Leather family is full of women.  We are open to change because the road of change takes us to new people and places we never dreamed about.

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