Poly

When I first started in this lifestyle, i told everyone i was heterosexual and monogamous.  i had friends who were bisexual and poly, but i didn't want that for me. How did i change?  What is poly and how does it work for me? First of all, I grew up in a large family with lots of extended members. The idea of family has always been a part of my life. When I met my Mistress, She had lots of experience with poly and already had a poly family. We had numerous conversations on how each person in her family interacted and how she spent time with them. The poly relationships I had observed before were more like open relationships. Her type of poly was more like a family. At that time, she had a family of friends, play partners, and submissives. Some people have a poly focus of sex or play, but ours is more of a family focus. Our family has changed, grown, and become more focused on our Leather goals over time. We do play, socialize, and enjoy being with each other.  There is a good sense of family and a security.  This is the family i chose.